Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Don't Worry, Be Happy


Introduction

            Until you saw the title to this lesson, what would you have guessed the odds would have been that I would ever be referencing a song by Bobby McFerrin dedicated to Bob Marley? Relax, hell hasn’t frozen over! I’m not exactly a musical expert—ok I’m not even remotely a musical expert—ok I really just like music and that’s as good as it gets. However, even I know that the song, Don’t Worry, Be Happy, is hardly a musical masterpiece. Nevertheless, the song, first released in 1988, became an almost instant sensation. Why? If you haven’t listened to the song, I invite you to do so. If you have heard the song then you know what I’m talking about when I say it represents unrivaled music banality. However, there is clearly something about the song that attracts people to its message. At first, one might think it’s the imperative to be happy but I don’t think that’s really it. I think it’s something deeper; something that reaches to the very core of our being. It’s not the imperative to “Be Happy,” it’s the imperative, “Don’t Worry.”

            I know that in my own life, I can never be truly happy if I am worried about something or someone. Some people think it is a laudable trait to show concern. However, I’m not talking about “concern,” I’m talking about worry and there’s a difference. One is a matter of prudence while the other is a matter of faith. I have been taught countless times that before you preach a message to anyone, preach it to yourself first. I have preached this message to myself countless times yet I always fall back into the same rut of worry and anxiety. So I’m going to preach it to myself again and this time you can listen in.

            People often confuse fear with worry and although they are very similar, they are also quite different. Certain fear is natural and healthy like the fear that makes us get out of the way of an oncoming car; or the fear of wearing something your wife will disapprove of (if you read my lesson from last week you’ll know that I don’t suffer from this debilitating fear). However, one of the ramifications of our fallen state is that we fear when fear is unnecessary. This type of fear “can get attached to what does not truly threaten us and can become paralyzing instead of motivating. In some cases fear ceases to be sporadic and becomes habitual. When this happens, we become worriers. Worry is a special form of fear. The traditional distinction is that fear is caused by an external source while worry or anxiety is produced from the inside. Yet they produce the same physical responses. Worry is fear that has unpacked its bags and signed a long-term lease. Worry never moves out of its own accord—it has to be evicted.”[1] Let’s try a quick experiment: Are you aware that researchers have identified the gene (slc6af) where worry and anxiety originate. It has been determined that those who have the short version of this gene are predisposed to worry more than those with the long version of the gene. I’m really not making that up! Now, how many of you out there read that and thought: ‘Wow that’s really interesting?’ How many of you out there read that and began to worry that you have the short gene? I think it’s interesting now but when I read that the first time, my first reaction was: ‘Great now I might be even more defective! I wonder if I should get tested!’ Stupid right? Well this is the battle that rages in some of our minds about countless things. There are so many possible explanations for this ranging from physical abnormalities to psychological maladjustments. However, I want to look at the spiritual component that comes with worry. Our subject text for this week’s lesson comes from Matthew’s Gospel where Jesus specifically addresses the topic of worry.

Subject Text

Matthew 6:25-34

25“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? 26Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? 28“And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Context

            We have to look all the way back to chapter 5 to find the setting for our subject text. Our subject text is actually part of Jesus’ famous Sermon on the Mount! We often think that the Sermon on the Mount consists only of the Beatitudes: Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven, Blessed are…, etc. But the complete sermon is everything contained in chapters 5-7, which our subject text is a part of. We often see Jesus teaching in various places throughout the Gospels. However, the Sermon on the Mount stands out as the largest singular gathering of people for a formalized teaching event. Generally speaking, the sermon is broken up into separate teaching segments without any really connections between teaching points. For example, in 6:1-4 Jesus teaches about giving to the needy; in 6:5-15 Jesus teaches us the Lord’s Prayer; in 6:16-18 Jesus teaches about fasting and it goes on like this throughout the sermon. Except, that is, when it comes to our subject text that begins with the word, “therefore” which means it is connected with whatever came before. That’s the part that stabs at my conscience every time. Here, let me just summarize my point by combining the first sentence of our subject text and the first sentence of the text that immediately precedes our subject text: “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal…Therefore, I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear.” Tell the truth, what were the very first words that entered your mind when you read that? Look, I’ve read these verses countless times and I have the same reaction every time: “Yeah but…!” The problem with Jesus’ teaching is that there is no room for: “Yeah but…!” So the instruction is that we’re not to store up money and possessions for ourselves and we’re not supposed to worry about what we’ll eat, drink or wear! Come on! Do those things go together in your world because they don’t seem to in my world? But there must be a way to incorporate both of these things into our lives or Jesus wouldn’t have given us the instruction to do so.

Text Analysis

            V. 25 sets up the imperative for the remaining verses of our subject text. The imperative is: “Do not worry about your life…”! The imperative is modified with the things we shouldn’t be worried about; what we will eat, drink or wear. In other words, we are instructed to not worry about the things we need to stay alive! Jesus asks the rhetorical question in v. 25b whether life isn’t more important than food and the body more important than clothing. Jesus’ instruction can be quite confusing especially in an American culture where what we put in our bodies and on our bodies often seems to be the most important thing. But the attitude of our culture is really quite similar to the cultural attitude during Jesus’ day. “Religion has swung between the extremes of Epicureanism—the body as an end, and Asceticism—the body as an enemy. Jesus stops the pendulum at exactly the right place: the kingdom of God is the supreme value among values, the body and its desires are to be subjected to and become the servant of that kingdom, with the understanding that the servant, body, is worthy of its wages and that everything that it needs is guaranteed…The donkey is a good burden-bearer. As a ruler it would be hopeless. The body is a great servant, but as a ruler it makes life asinine.”[2] Let’s make a distinction here between what Jesus is not and what Jesus is saying: Jesus is not saying that it doesn’t matter if you have anything to eat or drink or whether you have clothes to wear. Jesus is saying make sure the necessities of your life don’t become the obsession of your life. Understanding Jesus’ imperative not to worry “begins with confession that it is not God’s will. In fact, anxiety is a subtle insinuation that God is either unable or disinclined to see to our welfare.”[3] Yet nothing could be farther from the truth.

            Jesus continues in v. 26 by providing us with an illustration to consider birds and how they don’t have the means to plant or harvest or store away provisions and yet they aren’t generally at risk of starving to death because God cares for them as he cares for all of his creation. Jesus asks another rhetorical and profound question: “Aren’t you worth more than the birds?” I can’t stress the importance of understanding v. 26a in the context of a relationship with “your heavenly Father.” “As Father, God is the God who is near to whom man can turn in believing trust with all his petitions. Moreover, God is the sustainer of the creatures he has made. He receives them with fatherly goodness and surrounds them with his care.”[4] Jesus drives home his point of v. 26a in v. 26b when he makes the distinction of value between animals and humans emphasizing that if God cares for the smallest of birds then why wouldn’t he care for humanity that has infinitely more value? “Jesus had no maudlin sentimentality, however, about the animal being on an equality with man…Animals have in common with us desire for food and for affection, they have some intelligence and seemingly some reason, but they all apparently lack one thing that all men have—a desire for God. As far as we know no animal worships; all men worship, someway, somehow. The animal seems to lack the spiritual nature which makes a man akin to God, that which makes him set up altars of prayer, which makes him long for fellowship with the Father-Spirit. Jesus kept his values straight…Human personality is the most precious thing in the universe. If God takes care of the lesser, will he not take care of you, the greater?”[5]

            In case he hasn’t made his point clear enough in the previous verse, Jesus continues in v. 27 by asking yet another rhetorical question. In essence, Jesus asks: “How will worry change anything about which we worry?” Let me just say, I hate this question! I hate it because it jumps right into the middle of my worry with both feet of hard reality. Let me illustrate: As I might have mentioned, both of my girls decided to leave Colorado to go to college. We have been so blessed and I believe they have been so blessed to be attending a reputable Christian college with very high moral, ethical and educational standards. The college is in East Los Angeles county and although it is located in a relatively peaceful suburban city of LA county, it is, nevertheless, less than 30 miles from Compton! Compton is famously known for its prominence in drug trafficking, prostitution and gang violence. Let me just add this if you don’t have a clear picture of Compton yet: The college where my girls attend regularly sends students to Compton for missionary service projects! So why am I telling you this, because I worry about my girls all the time. And do you want to know what that worry has changed? Nothing! Absolutely nothing! And I know; which is why I hate this question! “Anxiety will not add even the smallest unit of time to one’s life. Not only is it true that we cannot extend our life by worrying, but daily experiences in our comparatively fast-paced culture confirms the wisdom of an earlier Jewish sage, who observed that worry and a troubled heart actually shorten life.”[6]

            Jesus continues to illustrate his point as he turns his attention to the beauty of a field of lilies in v.28. Explaining that if God could cloth a dirt field with such splendor then how much attention would he pay to clothing humanity? Jesus ups the ante in v. 29 to illustrate his point that not even Solomon, who was believed to have been blessed with the greatest wealth of all time and could provide anything for himself, could not adorn himself in attire more glorious than a field of lilies. Considering the setting of Jesus’ sermon, specifically in an open field, Jesus is probably referring to the surrounding wildflowers and grasses. Jesus is saying: ‘Pay attention to the way these wildflowers prosper and grow. They do even less for themselves than do the birds of the air and yet they are so very beautiful.’ Additionally, to prove how much more valuable humanity is to God, Jesus reminds his listeners that given the beauty of the fields they see, their value is so fleeting that their beauty is enjoyed one day while they are pulled up the next and used as fuel for the fire (v. 30). “Grass was then, as even today in the Middle East, common fuel for ovens. The conclusion to be drawn is readily apparent: since God so wonderfully ‘clothes’ what is so transitory and worthless, how much more true it must be that God will provide clothing for the disciples, quite apart from any anxiety on their part.”[7]

            Having said all this, Jesus reiterates in v. 31 his initial imperative saying that his listeners are not to worry about what they should eat, drink or wear. Because, Jesus tells them in v. 32, unbelievers [pagans] worry about these things and besides God in his infinite wisdom and providence already knows you need them. “Anxiety characterized pagan religions, which were dominated by fears of a capricious and despotic deity who constantly had to be appeased.”[8]

Jesus then instructs his listeners in v. 33 that in place of worry, they should first and foremost pursue God’s kingdom and His righteousness and all else will be provided. “The…reason against these worldly cares and fears is—because the business of our salvation ought to engross us entirely; hither all our desires, cares, and inquiries ought to tend.”[9] There’s probably one complete lesson in this verse alone but let me try to summarize what Jesus is and is not saying. Remember that people followed Jesus for a myriad of reasons; because of his teachings; because they wanted to make him king to overthrow their Roman oppressors; because of his healings or because he fed them just to name a few. Jesus wants to make sure his listeners, and us by extension, have the correct perspective. Jesus is saying that our focused attention should be the priority of advancing God’s kingdom and its objectives as well as God’s righteousness for our lives. The term “kingdom of God” can at times be confusing. The term can have the context of locality but when Jesus uses the term, he is referring to the reign, rule, authority and sovereignty that derives from a royal kingdom. Therefore, when Jesus says that the kingdom of God is “near” or “among you,” he is referring to himself as one who has authority over God’s kingdom. Furthermore, when Jesus requires that we pursue God’s righteousness, that righteousness is “not a matter of actions conforming to a given set of absolute legal standards, but of behaviour which is in keeping with the two-way relationship with God and man.”[10] Very simply, Jesus is saying that we are to seek Him and His ways and “all these things” will be given to us as well. Given the context of this verse within our subject text the “all these things” must logically be referring to our necessary provisions. However, history tells us that there must be more to these words than a quid-pro-quo arrangement where we pursue Jesus in all aspects of our lives and God will give us what we need. The evidence of Christians around the world and throughout history who have been and continue to be deprived of the basic necessities of life should tell us that there is something more at work in this verse. “One possible solution to this problem is to reserve all guarantees for the age to come. ‘Will be given’ does not specify when God will provide. To be sure, the fullness of the kingdom will eradicate all suffering for God’s people, but it is hard to see why Jesus would rule out worry in the present age if his promise applies only to a distant future. And if God’s kingdom has already been inaugurated, then believers should expect to receive in this age the firstfruits of its material blessings. Hence, v. 33b is probably to be interpreted in light of Luke 12:33 and Mark 10:30a, which presuppose the sharing of goods within the Christian community. When God’s people corporately seek first his priorities, they will by definition take care of the needy in their fellowships.”[11]

Worry, by nature, deals with the future. We don’t worry about past events because we already know how those events affected us. We don’t worry about the present because we are in the process of living its affects. Instead, we worry about future possibilities yet because we are finite beings, we have limited knowledge of what is even possible. We can’t even know for certain if what we’re worrying about will become reality. Therefore, Jesus says in v. 34, since future struggles cannot be endured in the present, we should focus on our present circumstances until our future circumstances become our present circumstances. This applies to all areas of our lives not just what we will eat, drink or wear. “In these final words against being anxious, Jesus broadens the exhortation to include anything that might make people fearful of tomorrow. As the present is fully under God’s control, so also is the future…The disciple should live in the present, not in the future (nor for that matter, the past either)…The saying has a proverbial ring to it. It is placed here to show the stupidity of being anxious about tomorrow or the future. It provides no warrant for being anxious even about the present day.”[12]

Application

            I have a painting in my office that I bought for myself 20+ years ago. It is a painting of Jesus standing on the Sea of Galilee with the waters raging. He has a firm grasp of Peter’s wrist as Peter is sinking chest deep in the water after attempting to walk on the water like Jesus. The caption for the painting comes from Matthew 14:31: “You of little faith, why did you doubt?” I bought it because it represents my life perfectly most of the time. I have the faith to get out of the boat and onto the water most days but it takes hardly a strong wave to cause me to sink and I wind up crying out to Jesus to save me. He does, of course, but I also hear those words again and again—“You of little faith, why did you doubt?” So what, you might be asking, does that have to do with this lesson? Did you by chance notice that I left something out in my text analysis above? You can find it at the end of v. 30. Do you see it? I made no mention of the short phrase: “O you of little faith!” There it is again! But what does walking on water have in common with our concerns for the future? Both require faith that God will give us what we need to do one and survive the other. “Worry is the interest we pay on tomorrow’s troubles. Worry is distrust, and distrust is sin, so worry is sin against the loving care of the Father.”[13] Ouch! That hurts even as I know it’s true. I can hear some of you screaming at me right now saying, “Yeah but you don’t know the future I’m facing!” At the same time I know some of you are crying out in pain saying, “Yeah but you don’t know how badly I’ve been hurt and what if tomorrow is even worse?” You know what? You’re right. But I know me and my life so for those of you who don’t know or for those of you who have forgotten, let me explain.

            I grew up with an abusive alcoholic father. He was both physically and emotionally abusive. He was an alcoholic for about 40 years of my life. He always drank but he wasn’t always abusive (a good day) which, oddly enough, made things worse because you never knew when the volcano would erupt. Whether being called a “worthless, dumb jackass” (a bad day) or being punched in the face (a really bad day), the effects were the same although not always visible. One of the consequences of living in that dysfunctional environment was the constant fear/worry/anxiety if tomorrow would be a good day, a bad day, or a really bad day. Over time, worry was just part of my daily way of life—it became habitual. No, I don’t know your specific life circumstance so I won’t pretend to tell you that all you have to do is just not worry. For some of us, that would be like telling a dog not to be a dog. Like many things that are repeated long enough, they become hard-wired into our being. However, repeated practice over a long period of time is precisely the way out as well. Think about it, would Jesus tell us to do something he knew we couldn’t do? No! Would he tell us to do something he knew would be hard for us to do or take a long time? Absolutely! Remember the quote from Ortberg in the introduction? In part it read, “Worry is fear that has unpacked its bags and signed a long-term lease. Worry never moves out of its own accord—it has to be evicted.” In other words, worry won’t just go away by itself. Eliminating worry from our lives requires focused intentionality. You may not have realized it but part of the answer is found earlier in chapter 6; it is the Lord’s Prayer. Therein Jesus instructs that we are to pray for the coming of the Kingdom, for God’s will to be done and for God to provide for us our daily bread. Prayer is a key element in overcoming our problem with worry.

Another very important aspect to overcoming our sense of worry is to make sure we have a clear and sober understanding of not only who God says he is but who he has revealed himself to be in and through the person of Jesus Christ. Here we must rely on the power of the Holy Spirit who lives in us and guides us into all truth to show us and teach us about a God who will stop and nothing to care for us. And the truth is, God is able to care for us in all the “ways” necessary to accomplish his will to advance His kingdom and provide for us His righteousness even if those “ways” look different than the how we think they should look.

Finally, a significant part of our issues with worry come from our expectations. Herein lies the problem with McFerrin’s song, Don’t Worry, Be Happy. Not the “Don’t Worry” part but the “Be Happy” part. For some reason, we seem to think that we are in some way entitled to be happy. I can’t find happiness as a biblical mandate or entitlement anywhere in scripture. Does that mean we can’t be happy? No. But it does mean that if happiness is our chief objective then we are inviting worry into our lives as we worry about anything and everything that could affect our happiness. Dr. Larry Crabb writes speaking for God, “You reduce Me to a God who is supposed to submit to your understanding of what matters most. You do not discern the lethal self-interest behind the purposes for which you seek divine approval. You are wrong to demand My cooperation with your understanding of life. Because I love you and because My plans for you are good, I demand your cooperation with Mine. There is no other way to enjoy My Presence.”[14] When we relinquish the belief that we are entitled to be happy then we can begin to let go of the need to worry that the events of our lives might in some way lead to unhappiness. Come to think of it, in an odd twist, McFerrin may have, in fact, struck on an important, even divine, message. Perhaps true and lasting happiness and worry are not always mutually exclusive. Maybe McFerrin was right after all when he sang—Don’t Worry, Be Happy!


[1] John Ortberg, If You Want To Walk On Water, You’ve Got To Get Out Of The Boat, (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 2001), p. 123.
[2] E. Stanley Jones, The Christ of the Mount: A Living Exposition of Jesus’ Words as the Only Practical Way of Life, (Nashville, TN: Festival Books, 1958), pp. 231-232.
[3] Walter A. Elwell, ed., Baker Theological Dictionary of the Bible, (Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books, 1996), p. 28.
[4] Colin Brown, ed., New International Dictionary of New Testament Theology, Vol. 2, (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1986), p. 76.
[5] Jones, The Christ of the Mount, pp. 234-235.
[6] Craig S. Keener, The IVP New Testament Commentary Series, Matthew, (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 1997), p. 155.
[7] Donald A. Hagner, Word Biblical Commentary, Matthew 1-13, (Dallas, TX: Word Books, 1993), p. 165.
[8] Craig L. Blomberg, The New American Commentary, Matthew, (Nashville, TN: Broadman Press, 1992), p. 126.
[9] Adam Clarke, Adam Clarke’s Commentary on the Holy Bible, (Kansas City, MO: Beacon Hill Press, 1967), p. 780.
[10] Brown, DONTT, Vol. 3, p. 355.
[11] Blomberg, Matthew, p. 126.
[12] Hagner, Matthew 1-13, p. 166.
[13] Jones, Christ of the Mount, p. 235.
[14] Larry Crabb, 66 Love Letters: A conversation with God that invites you into His story, (Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson, 2009), p. 159.

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