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Introduction
Let me just
state the obvious—life can be really hard sometimes. If you’ve ever been
overwhelmed at school or lost your job, you know life is hard. If the money
never stretches far enough to make ends meet, you know life is hard. If you’ve
endured the heartache of a broken relationship, you know life is hard. If
you’ve lost a cherished loved one, you know life is hard. If you’re hated
simply because of the color of your skin, you know life is hard. If you’re
battling an illness—physical, mental, or emotional—you know life is hard. If
you’re hated because of your faith in Jesus Christ, you know life is hard. I’m
guessing if you haven’t yet felt that life is hard, you’ll eventually get
there. However, do you want to know what is particularly hard, going through any
of these things believing you are alone? That can make the hardship seem
unbearable.
I have a
confession to make, I have been struggling under the weight of an illness for
almost a year now that has grown progressively worse. Not many people have been
aware of my condition except my family and some close friends. I thank God for
my friends and family because during the really bad times when I’ve been
hospitalized, they have been there to care for me and pray for me. In that
respect, I was Never Alone. But a
person’s faith can get stretch when life gets hard enough and it doesn’t appear
that God is doing anything to mitigate the hardship. I know my faith has been
stretched over the last year as I have prayed for healing that has been elusive
to this point. I have found myself on more than one occasion wondering if God
is even listening. However, whenever my wife makes a special meal for me that I
might be able to tolerate or a friend calls to let me know they are thinking of
me and praying for me, I know God is listening. It’s one of the ways He says,
you are Never Alone. However, when
friends and family are not near, His Spirit reminds me of His promise that He
will never leave me or forsake me and that He will be with me and near me
always as His Spirit resides within me.
Subject Texts
Matthew
28:20
20and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.
And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.
Hebrews
13:5
5Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content
with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I
forsake you.”
Context
For those
of you who have been reading my lessons for any length of time, you know that I
don’t teach on multiple texts at the same time. However, these two texts are so
closely related that I just couldn’t help myself. The texts demonstrate that
God has been and will continue to be faithfully present with His people in all
circumstances and for all time.
The text
from Matthew is found at the very end of his Gospel as Jesus commissions the
disciples, and by extension all of us, to go out and make disciples. Jesus knew
what awaited them as He commissioned them to go out and proclaim an unpopular
message to a hostile world. Jesus knew there would be a time for each of them
when the crucible of hardship would cause them to feel isolated. Jesus wanted
them to know that in those moments when life gets really hard, they are Never Alone.
The text
from Hebrews speaks to primarily Jewish Christians who were undergoing severe
persecution and were contemplating whether or not they made a mistake
abandoning the Jewish system of animal sacrifice in exchange for Jesus’
once-for-all sacrifice on the cross. The writer of Hebrews is reminding his
readers that no matter what they are experiencing. God’s faithfulness to His
promises remain unchanged and one of those promises is that even in the midst
of their pain and suffering, the are Never
Alone.
Text Analysis
Matthew
28:20
20and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.
And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.
I have
often said that becoming a follower
of Jesus is easy—or at least it was for me. I recognize that there are many of
you that had to scratch and claw your way to belief but it really wasn’t that
way for me. However, being a follower
of Jesus is never easy. I have never met anyone who has said that being
faithfully obedient to everything Jesus taught has been easy. But you know
what, I think it is supposed to be hard. I think Jesus knows we will fail,
sometimes often, because failure, even more than success, brings us to the
point of intimate connection with Jesus. It forces us to seek Jesus more
deeply. Paul said that it was in his weakness; in his failures, that Christ’s
strength would reveal itself.
Jesus knows
what He is asking when He asks us to follow Him. He knows that it will be hard to
follow Him in our relationships. He knows that it will be hard to follow Him at
work and at school. He knows it will be hard to follow Him in midst of people
who hate us. He knows that it will be hard to follow Him when the money runs
out or especially when the money never runs out. He knows that it will be hard
to follow Him when we are grieving a loss. He knows that it will be hard to
follow Him when we are sick and tired. Jesus knows that being faithful can be
very lonely. He knows because He experienced that loneliness on the cross when
not only His closest followers abandoned Him but even the Father turned His
back on the Son when the Son took our sin upon Himself. On the cross, Jesus
experienced that intense loneliness so we would never have to. Knowing how hard
life can get, Jesus wanted His disciples and all of us to know that He will
always be with us spiritually so that we are Never Alone.
“Matthew
closes his Gospel with Jesus’ promise to be spiritually present with his
followers until the end of this age, that is, until his return, when he will
once again be present bodily. John describes how Jesus had explained this
provision in much more detail as the ministry of the Holy Spirit (John 13-17).
Acts 2 will describe the decisive moment of the fulfillment of this promise at
Pentecost. Matthew chooses to leave his readers here. The disciples represent
everyone in the church to which he writes and, derivatively, everyone who
professes to follow Christ in any age. The Lord is now risen! He calls his
people to become disciple makers, and he promises to be with them irrespective
of their success or failures…In Jesus, God remains with us for now and
eternity! What more do we need to persevere in Christian living? We must go out
and obey his commission. But the final word of the Gospel remains
Christ-centered. Even when we fail, he remains faithful.”[1]
Hebrews
13:5
5Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content
with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I
forsake you.”
As I explained
earlier, the Jewish Christians we enduring intense persecution for their faith
in Christ. We tend to think that Christian persecution always involves physical
brutality. And while that’s true in many, even most, cases, some types of
persecution are more discreet and insidious. For example, Jews who became
Christians were often isolated economically. If they had businesses, no one
would buy from them. If they relied on other businesses to provide for their
needs, no one would sell to them. Currency, in whatever form, has always been a
necessary part of any functioning society.
This might
surprise you but Jesus talked more about finances than He did about heaven or
hell. George Barna of The Barna Research Groups found that there is essentially
no difference between believers and unbelievers in how they spend their money.
Specifically, believers and unbelievers alike amass money to build wealth for
their personal comfort and benefit. The giving patterns of believers and unbelievers
are eerily similar. Christians have always gotten themselves twisted around
what is and what is not biblical with respect to finances. At root of the
matter isn’t money in and of itself, it is a matter of faith and trust in God’s
provision.
Paul told Timothy that it isn’t
money that is evil but the love of
money that is evil. Believers tend to love money for the same reasons as
unbelievers—because of the perceived security it offers. With enough money, we
never have to worry about having a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs,
or food on our tables. Don’t get me wrong, having money, even lots of money,
isn’t in and of itself wrong. What God is more interested in is how open you
are to giving it away. However, this isn’t really a matter of financial parity.
God doesn’t care if everyone has the same amount of money. God wants to know if
your faith is in Him or in your money to provide for you. Let me know if this
sounds familiar: “Wow that person looks like they really need help but I need
every penny I have to provide for my own family.” There’s certainly nothing
wrong with providing for your own family but don’t you think God knows that?
What if, when you come across someone in need God is presenting you with an
opportunity to demonstrate that you trust Him more than you trust your money.
The text
from Hebrews is another verse were the Law of Double Reference applies. The
readers of the Epistle would have recognized this right away as coming from Deuteronomy
31:6 where Moses is encouraging the people to not be afraid as they prepare to
cross the Jordan River to take possession of the Promised Land. God provided
for their deliverance out of bondage, He provided for them as they wandered
forty years in the desert, and He would provide what they needed when the time
came to drive the Canaanites out of the land promised to them. God has always
provided for His creation; He has never abandoned His creation. God has been
faithful from the very start to care for His people. They never had to wonder
if God was present to guide them, protect them, and provide for them. They were
Never Alone. The writer of Hebrews’ use
of the words from their distant past (+/- 1,500 years) reminds his readers that
God remains unchanged with the passage of time. His promise to Israel that He
would never leave them or forsake them applied to them and it applies to us as
well.
“The love
of money was a theme regularly addressed in contemporary moral teaching. Jesus
warned against the danger of making money or possessions the centre of one’s
affections (Matt. 6:24; not Luke 16:14, where the Pharisees are called ‘lovers
of money’), linking this attitude with a lack of trust in God’s care and
provision for his children (Matt. 6:25-34). The love of money and trust in God
are mutually exclusive.
“The issue
has special relevance for the listeners of Hebrews. In ‘earlier days’ when they
had been subjected to public abuse and arrest, and some had been imprisoned,
they remained steadfast in their faith even though this meant losing some of
their possessions. The prospect of renewed suffering may have encouraged some
members of the congregation to seek greater material security. But love for
Christian brothers and sisters and for the foreigner or stranger stands in
contrast to the love of money since the latter is ‘an ugly expression of
deep-rooted selfishness’ (1 Tim. 6:10).
“The call
to contentment is based on the solemn and sure promise of God’s unfailing
presence and care. God himself speaks directly to them in the Scripture:
‘Never will I leave you;
never will I forsake
you.’
“This declaration that he will
never abandon his people nor leave them desolate is equivalent to the covenant
promise of the Old Testament, ‘I will be with you’…This covenant promise turns
up at key points in Israel’s salvation history and is reiterated in a variety
of ways throughout the Old Testament to assure the Lord’s people of his
presence and protection.
“The
assurance of God’s unfailing presence is intended to strengthen the listeners
so that they will trust in the Lord’s help, be generous rather than greedy, and
be faithful in their lives with one another. But the divine promise is
wide-ranging and can address all of the listeners’ needs…In fact, the Lord’s
constant presence in the midst of his people is ultimately the greatest
blessing to them…The singular you in the address represents the whole people,
but the promise is at the same time for each one of them. The affirmation of
total commitment to his people corporately and individually is all the more
powerful because it comes from the God who is ‘a consuming fire’ (Heb. 12:29).
It is ‘a terrible thing to fall into the hands of the living God (10:31),’ but
it is also, paradoxically, the safest of all places to be.”[2]
Application
I want to
issue a warning to all of you who believe you’re in the clear when you see
someone straining under the hardship of their particular struggle and simply
tell yourself that God will take care of them because God is always present.
You are treading on dangerously unbiblical territory even if there is some
truth floating around in that idea. Do you want to know what I have heard
people cry out to me when they’ve been told that they should look only to
Jesus? What they tell me is that they do trust Jesus but what they really need
at that moment is Jesus with skin on. Does that sound strange to you? Well what
they are saying is that the need more than the spiritual presence of Jesus at
that moment during their struggle. Nothing vanquishes loneliness in the
crucible of hardship like Jesus with skin on.
I want to
challenge you this week to be Jesus with skin on for someone who is laboring
under the weight of their pain and suffering. For some of you who are
struggling with your own pain and suffering, what I’m asking you to do may be
an additional burden that is too heavy for you carry right now. In that case, I
pray that God sends someone into your life to be Jesus with skin on. The point
is, take the opportunity, if you are able, to be present with someone
struggling—go visit, make a phone call, write a note of encouragement. Do
something for someone that will let them know that they don’t have to struggle
by themselves and then let them know, if they don’t already, that through Jesus
Christ, they are Never Alone.
This week I
read a story of Judge Lou Olivera and retired Green Beret Joe Serna that is a
perfect example of what it means to be Jesus with skin for someone whose dread
of loneliness and isolation had the power to break his mind.
“Gulf War veteran Lou
Olivera, a district court judge who presides over the Veterans Treatment Court in
Cumberland County, North Carolina, sentenced retired Green Beret Joe Serna to
spend the night in jail for a probation violation earlier [that] month.
"He did his
duty," Serna tells PEOPLE [Digital Magazine]. "He sentenced me. It
was his job to hold me accountable. But what he did next," Serna
continues, "it sounds like I'm making it up – and I'm not."
Judge Olivera
persuaded another veteran, the jailer, to allow him to "stay in the
foxhole" overnight with Serna.
"He is a judge,
but that night, he was my battle buddy," Serna says. "He knew what I
was going through. As a warrior, he connected."
A
Decades-Long Connection
The warrior connection
has played an important role in Serna's life for decades. As a young soldier
going through the grueling Special Forces selection process, Serna and a buddy
devoured the book Five Years to Freedom by legendary Green Beret Nick Rowe – a
POW in Vietnam who escaped captivity and later was assassinated – and ripped
the book in half so that the pals could read it simultaneously.
"It inspired
me," Serna says. "The Vietnam guys are my idols."
Like many of his
idols, Serna went into combat repeatedly. Each deployment brought honor – and a
measure of pain.
"I lost so many
friends," Serna tells PEOPLE. "I was medevaced [medically evacuated]
after some guy dropped a grenade on me. In the process, I lost a bunch of guys
right next to me."
In one horrific
incident, Serna and his fellow soldiers were trapped overnight inside a vehicle
submerged in water. Everyone but Serna died.
"I lost my whole
crew," Serna says. "They were in the water with me. That tore me up.
I couldn't escape that truck. I stayed there until somebody saved me."
Later, Serna was
wounded and required surgery. Afterwards, when he was medically retired, he
paid attention only to some of his ailments.
"Physically, I
was taking care of myself," Serna says. "I didn't think about the
mental."
Still, mental ailments
made themselves known.
"I was having
issues, and would feed that with alcohol," Serna says. "I thought I
was going down the right path. I didn't know I was going the wrong way."
Serna's path
eventually brought him to the Veterans Treatment Court, a relatively new branch
of the court system in various jurisdictions, including Cumberland County,
North Carolina.
The special courts aim
to help struggling veterans get back on track.
The court officials
are mostly veterans who understand the dynamics of military service, says Judge
Olivera. "We jell as a team," he says.
Olivera saw the team's
positive impact on Serna, who was on probation for several alcohol-related
offenses.
"When Joe first
came to my court, he was so tight," Olivera says. "His shoulders were
so tense. Over time, you could see his shoulders relax."
But, Olivera says:
"Everybody is human. People make mistakes."
When Serna violated
his probation over a urinalysis test, Olivera knew he had to hold the veteran
accountable.
Olivera also knew that
being locked up and unable to escape a windowless steel box could trigger
painful memories of the night Serna was trapped inside a small space with
fallen companions.
"Joe was a good
soldier and he's a good man," Olivera says. "I wanted him to know I
had his back. I didn't want him to do this alone."
Without telling Serna
what he planned to do, Olivera personally drove Serna to neighboring Robeson
County. There, Olivera consulted jail administrator George Kenworthy – another
veteran – and told him he wanted to spend the night in lockup with Serna.
"He looked at me
like I was crazy," Olivera says. "He gave me the stinkeye, and said,
'I don't know what you're thinking, son. I can't lock up a judge.' "
"I never heard of
such a thing," Kenworthy tells PEOPLE.
The two men went
outside to talk. Olivera explained Serna's story.
"Give me 10
minutes," Kenworthy told the judge. "I'll get y'all a cell."
Locked
Inside
Unaware of what was
transpiring outside, Serna settled in for his stretch in jail. He began to
think about the night he was trapped with his fallen men inside the submerged
vehicle.
"In the truck, I
didn't know I would get out of there," Serna says. "I only had one option
that night, and it wasn't a good option. In the cell, I reflected on
that."
As his mind went into
dark places, Serna heard his cell door rattle. He looked up and, to his shock,
saw the smiling face of Judge Olivera.
"I said, 'Judge,
what are you doing?' He said, 'We're in the foxhole together.' "
Olivera stepped
inside. Kenworthy brought in mats so that the judge could sleep on the floor,
as per his request.
"They closed the
door and locked it," Serna says. "I said, 'This is serious.' He had
the ability to get out, but they locked the door."
Serna asked his new
cellmate: "Judge, are you afraid?"
"No,"
Olivera replied. "Are you?"
"No," Serna
told him.
"I was at
peace," Serna says. "When he came in, I knew everything was going to
be okay."
The two spent the
night talking about their service, their families and their lives.
The next day, the
veterans left lockup together. Olivera drove his cellmate home, and stopped off
to buy donuts for the Serna family.
Time
to Reflect
The jail sentence is
over, but now all three men say the experience enriched them.
"I'm a judge and
I've seen evil," Olivera says, "but I see the humanity in people. Joe
is a good man. Helping him helped me. I wanted him to know he isn't
alone."[3]
[1] Craig L.
Blomberg, Matthew—The New American Commentary, (Nashville, TN: Broadman Press,
1992), 433-434.
[2] Peter T.
O’Brien, The Letter to the Hebrews—The
Pillar New Testament Commentary, (Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing
Co., 2010), 511-512.
[3] Keating,
Susan. “North Carolina Judge Sentences Fellow Veteran to Jail—Then Goes Behind
Bars With Him: ‘We’re in the Foxhole Together’”, PEOPLE, 4/27/17, Accessed
9/24/16, http://www.people.com/article/north-carolina-judge-joins-veteran-jail.
(Audio version; Music: "Street Called Mercy" and "Oceans" by: Hillsong United)